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The
Strict
Program


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How to date effectively and win at love.


A practical step by step guide that teaches you how to date more effectively, filter wisely, and move with greater clarity toward a loving marriage.

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The
Strict Program


—————— ❤︎ ⁠—————— 

How to date effectively and win at love.


A practical step by step guide that teaches you how to date more effectively, filter wisely, and move with greater clarity toward a loving marriage.

Preorder Now
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This is where things usually go wrong.


You meet someone, you feel a connection, and you let things play out. You stay open, you give it time, and you hope it becomes something real.

But then things start to feel unclear. The effort isn’t consistent, you’re not sure what he wants, and you begin questioning where it’s going.

Before you realize it, you’ve invested months or even years into a man who was never truly ready to build a future with you.

Not because you weren’t worthy of love, but because no one taught you how to properly evaluate a man early, recognize red flags sooner, date with intention instead of emotion alone, and understand what healthy progression should look like, and when.

That is exactly what this book will help you do.

This is The Strict Program.


Most women date reactively.

They follow chemistry, potential, and hope, only to become emotionally invested before they truly know if a man is right for them.

The Strict Program teaches a different approach.

One rooted in self-worth, discernment, emotional intelligence, and intentional dating.

This isn't about attracting men. It's about choosing the right one.

Because the goal isn't simply to have a relationship.

It's to build a life where love brings you peace, stability, and happiness instead of confusion and emotional exhaustion.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

Build self worth so you stop settling for less than you truly want

Recognize men who are genuinely ready for commitment before becoming emotionally attached

Understand red flags, green flags, compatibility, and long term potential more clearly

Date without overgiving, overexplaining, or losing yourself trying to make a relationship work

Put yourself in a position to evaluate and choose wisely, not just hope to be chosen back

Learn the habits and behaviors that make you more magnetic, memorable, and difficult to replace

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

Build self worth so you stop settling for less than you truly want

Recognize men who are genuinely ready for commitment before becoming emotionally attached

Understand red flags, green flags, compatibility, and long term potential more clearly

Date without overgiving, overexplaining, or losing yourself trying to make a relationship work

Put yourself in a position to evaluate and choose wisely, not just hope to be chosen back

Learn the habits and behaviors that make you more magnetic, memorable, and difficult to replace

CHOOSE YOUR EDITION

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Everyone who preorders The Strict Program will receive access to a private live session with me in September 2026, where we’ll discuss the book together and answer questions live.

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What early readers have said:

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One of the things I appreciated most is that the book does not simply tell women to 'know their worth' in a vague way. It gives specific, practical examples of what that looks like in real dating situations: how to respond, what to observe, when to slow down, how to protect your time, and how to recognize whether a man is truly serious. That level of detail makes the book feel useful and actionable.
Cassandra Branan
Psychology & Mental Health Writer
“
As a reader, I can say that reading this book felt like a combination of advice from an experienced older sister and a qualified mentor. The book is a necessary compass, as it successfully complements modern relationship theory with practical, applicable steps for those of us seeking a genuine commitment. I would recommend this book to my 18-year-old daughter.
Milesther Pérez
Beta Reader
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I wish I had this book before my last relationship. It helped me understand why I kept accepting inconsistency and calling it chemistry. I finished it feeling more confident, more grounded, and more protective of my future.
Mariana Solano
Beta Reader
“
I really liked the way the book is organized into sections and subsections because it essentially follows the entire timeline of the courtship process. It also covers topics such as red flags, green flags in a man, and how to become a more feminine woman without giving up your boundaries or your personal style.
I was left with no unanswered questions because it covers all the necessary topics in an organized way.
Aixa Hoogstra
Beta Reader

What early readers have said:

“
One of the things I appreciated most is that the book does not simply tell women to 'know their worth' in a vague way. It gives specific, practical examples of what that looks like in real dating situations: how to respond, what to observe, when to slow down, how to protect your time, and how to recognize whether a man is truly serious. That level of detail makes the book feel useful and actionable.
Cassandra Branan
Psychology & Mental Health Writer
“
As a reader, I can say that reading this book felt like a combination of advice from an experienced older sister and a qualified mentor. The book is a necessary compass, as it successfully complements modern relationship theory with practical, applicable steps for those of us seeking a genuine commitment. I would recommend this book to my 18-year-old daughter.
Milesther Pérez
Beta Reader
“
I wish I had this book before my last relationship. It helped me understand why I kept accepting inconsistency and calling it chemistry. I finished it feeling more confident, more grounded, and more protective of my future.
Mariana Solano
Beta Reader
“
I really liked the way the book is organized into sections and subsections because it essentially follows the entire timeline of the courtship process. It also covers topics such as red flags, green flags in a man, and how to become a more feminine woman without giving up your boundaries or your personal style.
I was left with no unanswered questions because it covers all the necessary topics in an organized way.
Aixa Hoogstra
Beta Reader
Tania Lucely

Meet Tania Lucely

Tania Lucely is a writer and entrepreneur known for her work on modern dating, femininity, and emotional intelligence.

Since 2019, she has shared her philosophy online with more than 2.5 million women seeking healthier relationships, stronger self worth, and more intentional love.

The Strict Program is the culmination of everything she has learned, taught, and shared over the years.

Born in Sinaloa, Mexico and raised in California, Tania is now happily married and lives in Los Angeles with her husband and their children.

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Frequestly Asked Questions

Your love life changes when your standards do.


You can't control who walks into your life. But you do have control over who you allow to stay.

The person you build a future with will impact your peace, your happiness, your family, and the quality of your life for years to come.

Choose intentionally.
 

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Your love life changes when your standards do.


You can't control who walks into your life. But you do have control over who you allow to stay.

The person you build a future with will impact your peace, your happiness, your family, and the quality of your life for years to come.

Choose intentionally.
 

RESERVE YOUR COPY